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From iSteve commenter Harry Baldwin:

For blacks, there are three ways to keep it real: Angry, Violent, and Victim.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is a useful approach to changing one’s way of dealing with the world. Wikipedia describes it: “CBT focuses on challenging and changing unhelpful cognitive distortions and behaviors, improving emotional regulation, and the development of personal coping strategies that target solving current problems.”

On-line, you can find lists of common cognitive distortions that make it very difficult for those who hold them to achieve happiness or success. What is remarkable, is that Western society, through its education system and media, imbues black people with these cognitive distortions and thinks it is doing them a favor.

* Resenting other people (Whites)
* Bitterness about the past (Slavery, Jim Crow, Red-lining, Emmett Till)
* Self-centeredness (Black Lives Matter)
* Blaming other people for one’s problems (Racism)
* Feeling superior to everyone else (We was kangz!)
* Ill-will towards strangers (Polar bear attacks)
* Focus on the faults of other people (Whites, Asians)
* Being overly pessimistic (Black man ain’t got no chance in the white man’s world)
* Blowing things out of proportion (Noose! Banana peel! Cotton balls!)
* Always attributing negative motives behind the actions of others (Why did he call me “articulate”?)

There are sites on-line where they go into depth on cognitive distortions, such as at https://positivepsychology.com/cognitive-distortions/

Read them and you can’t help but be struck by how this kind of self-defeating thinking is encouraged in blacks throughout their lives.

 
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  1. Lot says:

    Somalis need to face up their shameful history of slavery and pay reparations to the Somali Bantu community. Time to shine a spotlight and have a conversation and raise awareness!

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Somali_Bantus

    “Somali Bantus are ethnically and physically distinct from indigenous Somalis of Cushitic descent, and they have remained marginalized ever since their arrival in Somalia.”

    “ The Somali Bantus are the descendants of many Bantu ethnic groups found in East Africa including areas of Tanzania, Mozambique and Malawi. These groups were brought to Somalia in the 19th century by Arab slave traders from the tribes of Majindo, Makua, Manyasa, Yao, Zalama, and Zigua.

    When civil war broke out in Somalia, the Somali Bantus were sent from their homes and farms by armed people of the Somali clan. The legacy and stigma of slavery made the Bantu population particularly vulnerable and many Somali Bantus were killed, tortured, and raped by the ethnic Somalis as the famine increased.”

    • Agree: wren
  2. CBT traces its roots to Stoicism and Buddhism in antiquity, but its modern form comes from Jewish psychotherapists like Albert Ellis and Aaron Beck. It looks as if the Jewish Wokeviks who keep agitating America’s black population know about CBT, and they have consciously applied “reverse CBT” as their main propaganda tool.

    • Replies: @Matthew Kelly
  3. Patriot says:

    At my university, all students except straight White males are taught that they are victims.

    Of course, straigbt White males and any White females who support them are the racist oppressors.

    Jews are almost always victims no matter how rich or powerfl they are.

  4. Anonymous[279] • Disclaimer says:

    Okay…agree on the point that society gives blacks excessive license for self-indulgent and unproductive thinking. But is it just me or are precisely these same cognitive distortions omnipresent throughout the Very Online Right?
    Before we get carried away throwing stones at blacks, we should make sure we aren’t occupying a glass house.

    • Disagree: Pheasant
    • Replies: @HammerJack
    , @Coemgen
  5. Does CBT interact with CBD? Do you have to wait an hour between the two?

    • Replies: @Lurker
  6. Ironically enough, the Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) concept revolves around the ages-old worldly key values of pride, self-respect, responsibility and – freedom.
    Seen from this perspective the only difference between the key values of black street culture and the cultural sources, CBT springs from, that the black popular culture is based on the illusion of free entitlement, whereas the traditional western culture makes clear that success in life is rooted in the classic idea of – do ut des give and be given).

    A last one, then I’m done: The usual approach towards blacks, which – the longer, the more – hides the interwovenness of accomplishment and honor as the very basis of the free western society is deep down a paternalistic approach, which deprives its beneficiaries from the very roots of the persuit of happiness. (The welfare state has an innate tendency to morally and psychologically corrupt its clients and treating them not like a grown-up. Those who are able to work, for example, but not willing to denigrate teir status as a free citizen by their own actions and thus – destroy the very basis of their respectability and personal honor.

    That’s Immanuel Kant, basically – pretty much in his own words. – And it fits in nicely here, that in May and June – the George Floyd months, as we might call them, Kant = racist philosopher became a big thing amongst European intellectuals.

    • Replies: @Redneck farmer
    , @slumber_j
  7. Anon[426] • Disclaimer says:

    Deep State is upset by Russia’s new constitution because it undercuts the oligarchs new proxy warriors (nb: this new constitution reflects the consensus of the Russian unlike the 1993 one the godless Globohomo U.S. State Department drew up for Russia).

  8. PaceLaw says:

    Absolutely spot on by Harry Baldwin! The black community does tend to vacillate wildly between being hapless victims who need and want the support of whites for any and everything, and angry militants who want to go all Hutu on your ass and commit genocide. The black community is terribly, terribly neurotic.

    • Agree: Joseph Doaks
    • Replies: @dcthrowback
  9. JimDandy says:

    Then there’s these guys, Candace Owens, Thomas Sowell, Larry Elder, etc.

    Ignored or vilified.

  10. The problem is the same if you look at the current insanity from a Christian theology point of view.

    The foundation of Christian doctrine of man/anthropology is that people of all races are equal in God’s sight — that is:

    1 All people are created in the image of God.

    2 All have fallen short of God’s glory because of their sin.

    3 All are offered the free gift of grace and the redemption of their sins through the saving work of Jesus.

    But here’s what are white Substitute Saviors telling black people:

    1 Although from one side of our mouths we say that ‘race’ is just a social construct, every action we take testifies to our unshakeable belief that race is essential to identity. You can therefore never join in the family of God simply as human believers; you are forever a people set apart because of the color of your skin.

    2 No matter what you do, you do not own your own sins. You are not guilty. White supremecist society must bear the burden of your sin; it is their responsibility for creating the conditions that compel you to break laws, both society’s and God’s.

    3 Your salvation is not a gift from God; rather, it’s a ‘program’ of fake redemption focused on money and worldly status that’s provided to you courtesy of the work of us, your (mainly white) Substitute Saviors.

    To a believing Christian who cares about the souls of all people, what’s being offered to black people is a first-class ticket on the express train to perdition.

    • Agree: Charon
    • Replies: @Ron Mexico
    , @Dieter Kief
  11. We was kangz!

    We wuz Konquistadorz!

    The Africans Who Discovered America Thousands Of Years Before Columbus

    …There is now undisputed scientific proof that the first Americans were descended from Africans or Australian aborigines

    …More ancient Olmec heads discovered in the Americas

    …The people represented in the faces of these heads may have led a great dynasty of Black Kings [sp] who ruled for more than two thousand years in Mexico and who eventually became absorbed into the Indian population due to mixing.

    Uh, so we need to destroy the Olmec head statues of the Black colonial rulers over the subjugated Native-Americans?

    • Replies: @wren
    , @Redneck farmer
  12. Anonymous[246] • Disclaimer says:

    Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is a useful approach to changing one’s way of dealing with the world.

    Trump fans need them some CBT asap!!!

    All the twitterz they can’t quite figure out why Trump is sliding.

    Zero mentions of Gorsuch anywhere now. It’s a goldfish online nation and people can’t remember what happened two weeks ago… but I’m here to tell you:

    GORSUCH TORPEDOED TRUMP’S CAMPAIGN AND IT’S NOT VERY FIXABLE.

    The media is oblivious but news of this legal catastrophe has spread through the Christian communities. The “judges” was Trump’s goto issue for the base. After all his other betrayals he could at least say he delivered on SCOTUS. But that’s all gone now.

    Didn’t watch but Trump highlighted the “300 judges” at his town hall. Of course everyone is quietly wondering how many more Gorsuches are in that group.

    THIS IS FUBAR AND NOT EASILY FIXABLE.

    • Replies: @Jon
  13. Anonymous[139] • Disclaimer says:

    On-line, you can find lists of common cognitive distortions that make it very difficult for those who hold them to achieve happiness or success. What is remarkable, is that Western society, through its education system and media, imbues black people with these cognitive distortions and thinks it is doing them a favor.

    But Jews have these cognitive distortions and are the richest and most powerful people on Earth.

    * Resenting other people (Whites, Christians, and Goyim)
    * Bitterness about the past (Pogroms and Shoah)
    * Self-centeredness (Israel is Our Greatest Ally)
    * Blaming other people for one’s problems (Antisemitism)
    * Feeling superior to everyone else (We are Chosen)
    * Ill-will towards strangers (Destroying Arabs, Iranians, Palestinians, and whites)
    * Focus on the faults of other people (Any goyim who dare notice bad Jewish behavior)
    * Being overly pessimistic (Even though we are most successful, another Holocaust just around the corner!)
    * Blowing things out of proportion (Swastika! New Hitler! Neo-Nazis! Trump and Putin are Literally Hitler… or worse)
    * Always attributing negative motives behind the actions of others (Why did he call me “clever”?)

    ————-

    What makes blacks truly problematic is not how they think or feel.

    Suppose blacks felt all those things but were mostly like Gary Coleman or Guillermo in build..

    Black rage is problematic because blacks are more muscular and tougher. So, their idiotic rages hit harder and frighten more non-black folks.

    On some level, whites are afraid to admit they are afraid of blacks. They would come across as cowardly and chickenshit. So, they hide their cowardice with shows of compassion. That way, whites can pretend that their sucking up to fearsome blacks is out of moral choice than physical fright.

  14. Not quite OT:

    Today’s attempt at cognitive behavioral modification by the Washington Post.

    Date Lab: Daters say they don’t tolerate racial bias. Their actions say they do have racial preferences.

  15. Yes, they’ve been allowed to indulge their delusions, no doubt.

    But Blacks are in the same condition everywhere on Earth, all throughout time. So it’s not a cultural, religious or psychotherapy issue. It’s genetics.

    • Replies: @Anonymousse
  16. Grumpy says:

    The other side of the coin is the way in which the rest of us have been socialized.

    For the first time, I am reading Dale Carnegie’s How to Win Friends and Influence People, first published in 1936. I am enjoying it. It offers practical advice for getting ahead. Putting the advice into practice sounds like a great strategy for personal advancement in a functioning society.

    On a societal scale, it is a recipe for disaster:

    “Instead of condemning people, let’s try to understand them”; “Never tell a man he is wrong”; “Say about yourself all the derogatory things you know the other person is thinking or wants to say or intends to say–and say them before he has a chance to say them.”

    It is about avoiding conflict, remaining quiet while others talk, self-criticism, etc. Americans are doing far too much of this right now. Twentieth-century pop psychology turned us into complete wimps.

    • Replies: @Roderick Spode
  17. @The Last Real Calvinist

    Well said. We are one Holy, catholic and apostolic people. Let your hearts not be troubled. Christ will prevail.

  18. Most working class Blacks did not engage in the looting and quite frankly are just as confused as the rest of us. I advise you go out and talk to people. There is a big difference between the Twitter crowd and the working class Black person on the street. That is my take.

    I have talked obtusely with (admittedly older) Black people on my block and they just shrug their shoulders and say they don’t understand what the hell is going on. Most normal people feel this way.

    Mike Tracey has done an admirable job of talking to Black men on the street who were in the heart of the looting in the Midwest. Most people are just confused.

    All we need to resolve this is to get normal people back on the streets. Normal people of any race do not tolerate this bullshit. This revolution is nothing but a simulation. If you remove normal people from the streets then the radical narrative becomes the norm. The only people out in the streets are radical anarchists and the cops. The media plays up the anarchists as representing the American people, but they are anything BUT representative. This is a colored revolution. It is manufactured for television and social media.

    No matter how much you hate New York, there is no way that normal New Yorkers would stand by and watch their City be destroyed if regular folks were out in the streets. The Revolution works only because the Good People are staying inside. This is staged. A simulation of revolution.

    Check out this conversation between DC cops and an utterly insane brainwashed loon protester. If regular masculine men can congregate and talk to each other, this false house of cards collapses in minutes.

    Bros being Bros can literally banish demons. This is what they fear because their narrative is based on the most precarious of LIES.

    I fully endorse the one cop’s spiritual take, because make no mistake, this is a SPIRITUAL WAR.

    The conniving social media star that made that White woman hysterical in Seattle by calling her racist is the worst of the worst, but his exploitive grift only works if normal people take these clowns seriously. Before he hit clout gold with the Seattle lady, Karlos Dillard tried the same scam with an Asian restaurant. I doubt the Asian lady in this video used a racial slur, especially one in the English language.

    But notice what actually happens. The Asian restaurant workers politely shoo the social media grifter off. The absolute unit of Latino chef is completely indifferent to the clown’s hysteria. The Whites chilling outside basically ignore him. A literal Rainbow Coalition of Indifference to racial hysteria. Inspiring.

    PERHAPS, ANOTHER WORLD IS POSSIBLE.

    Maybe we can make it after all, if we, THE PEOPLE, just stand up for normalcy, decency and the American Way.

    • Thanks: wren, Anonymousse
    • Replies: @Jesse
    , @Clifford Brown
  19. Kronos says:

    What is remarkable, is that Western society, through its education system and media, imbues black people with these cognitive distortions and thinks it is doing them a favor.

    https://www.fidelitypress.org/book-products/the-slaughter-of-cities

    (It used to be on Amazon but they just banned Jones’s books fairly recently.)

    I’m currently reading E. Micheal Jones’s “The Slaughter of Cities: Urban Renewal as Ethnic Cleansing.” So far it’s a REALLY good book. I’ve probably never been this mentally invigorated since reading Charles Murray’s “The Bell Curve” (secretly) during High School. The book is a iSteve potluck. It deals with race (mainly ethnicity: Irish, Poles, WASPS), urban renewal, and white flight. While Jones’s isn’t a HBD biological determinist, he knuckle-boxes against the nurture based assumptions made by US WASPS of the early 20th century to the extent that they’ve lost all their teeth and one ear.

    The basis of the book examines how and why so many east coast North American cities (Philadelphia, Detroit) turned into complete sh#t shows after the mid-1960s. The quick answer is that Episcopalian/Quakers were worried about the political power of Catholic ethnics in the cities. For many reasons, US WASP elites favored the nurture/environmental explanations for human behavior (bad move.) These WASPs felt they couldn’t assimilate these ethnics with the Catholic Church in the way. These ethnic enclaves were close knitted and very insulated. (Remember, no TVs.)

    Many of these WASP (and Jews) thought replacing them with southern blacks would be easier. Blacks were often Baptist (Protestant) and thus more compatible with American values. The black churches were much more individualized and easier to influence by the John Dewey influenced/Rockefeller Foundation types. So the WASPs (and Jews) played “Sim City” with urban renewal projects that “inadvertently” broke up the ethnic ghettos starting in the 1930s. With blacks residing on the best real estate ever since.

    (I’m still reading the book but that’s the briefest of outlines.)

    Because of the failure of nurture/environmental government policies to close the achievement gap ever since LBJ started “The War on Poverty” in the 1960s; elite urban whites have been stuck with low ability blacks. They’re required for the Democratic Party to function on a national level. So whipping them up into a rioting (voting) frenzy is expected. (In the long run, the Blacks will be replaced with Catholic Latin Americans but until then it’s BLM.)

    • Replies: @Ed
    , @Anonymous
  20. @The Last Real Calvinist

    2 No matter what you do, you do not own your own sins. You are not guilty. White supremecist society must bear the burden of your sin; it is their responsibility for creating the conditions that compel you to break laws, both society’s and God’s.

    A theological tendency: To follow the “think positive”*****– imperative and eradicate whatever there is left in the Christain tradition which relates to – evil, sin, hell, The Devil and the like. Thus Christianity itself has morphed into something utterly toothless and – – – – – numb. The Christian-radius includes the social worker as the outpost of cruelty and evil. 
    The police and the military and prisons – all kinds of manifestations of worldly power are deemed – irrelevant when talked about at all. The preferred mode is not to talk about these horrible things at all.

    The result is – the infantilization of the religion and the public sphere. 

    (Very old man remind people of – – – – kids. The appeal of Joe Biden, the impersonation of the quite old man thus might be understood as a societal tendency to  – regress. The old man Biden is part of the regressive left (Dave Rubin). – And the toothless Christian God is as toothless a baby-child and – – – thus part of the collective resistance to act and behave like grown-ups. – Narcissism is quite natural for kids – and somewhat problematic for grown-ups.

    *****https://www.amazon.de/Bright-Sided-Positive-Thinking-Undermining-America/dp/0312658850

  21. Lurker says:
    @Reg Cæsar

    I’m wondering where EBT might fit in.

    • Replies: @Roderick Spode
  22. Jesse says:
    @Clifford Brown

    It’s too late for YT. The race realist side has failed to even state an alternative for whites that the majority can stomach, let alone make an attempt to enact it.

    The only consolation is that the screeching protesters are in for a shock once the new Diverse™ elites get in.

    • Replies: @BenKenobi
  23. Anonymous[388] • Disclaimer says:

    Funny thing about the talk of blacks is they never fail. It’s always others who fail them.

    If a black guy made a mess of his life, he didn’t fail himself. Others failed him and must feel sorry.

    • Replies: @Jon
  24. @Clifford Brown

    Tucker continues to KILL IT. God Bless This Man.

    • Agree: Jon
  25. I think a lot of the Woke (especially the leaders dictating to their white allies) have cluster b personality disorders. These are the narcissistic, sociopathic and borderline types. Very unpleasant people.

  26. @Kinda Salty

    Don’t forget extremely passive aggressive.

  27. Jon says:
    @Anonymous

    The media is oblivious but news of this legal catastrophe has spread through the Christian communities. The “judges” was Trump’s goto issue for the base. After all his other betrayals he could at least say he delivered on SCOTUS. But that’s all gone now.

    Is the idea that Gorsuch is worse than whoever Biden will pick to replace Ginsburg and Breyer? Trump has the chance to create a 7-2 majority on the Court. If Biden wins, he probably gets to replace Thomas, giving the left a 5-4 advantage.

    • Agree: Red Pill Angel
    • Replies: @Brian Reilly
  28. BenKenobi says:
    @Jesse

    You talk like a fag and your shit’s all retarded.

    You will be conscripted and compelled to have at least three children. You will not be permitted to advance beyond the rank of Sergeant, should you merit at least that.

    Your children will be nothing like you.

    You’re welcome.

  29. Jon says:
    @Anonymous

    If a black guy made a mess of his life, he didn’t fail himself. Others failed him and must feel sorry.

    Agency is a privilege!

  30. Altai [AKA "Altai_2"] says:
    @Kinda Salty

    Septum piercing is diagnostic for women. In 2020 not every BPD has a septum piercing but every young woman with a septum piercing has BPD.

    • Agree: Kronos
    • Replies: @Kinda Salty
  31. Altai [AKA "Altai_2"] says:

    On another note, the collective psyche of North-Western European and derived peoples could be said to be depressed. Individually a white person may be the farthest from depression, but their ethnic or group identity is depressed and makes them feel bad when they think about it or connect to it.

    As Steve notes with the comparison between rural and rust-belt white deaths of despair, even if they don’t feel guilt, they feel hopelessness about the future, both individually and collectively like a conquered people.

    https://www.healthcentral.com/article/depression-symptoms-guilt-and-shame

    How does toxic guilt and shame manifest during depression?

    • You may find yourself constantly apologizing even for things which are not your fault.

    • You may blame yourself when anything goes wrong, even for those things not under your control.

    • Your mantra is “Everything is my fault.”

    • You may sabotage your happiness because you feel you don’t deserve it.

    • You may have feelings that you are inferior, unworthy, dirty, untouchable, but not know why.

    • We may feel guilt and shame for being depressed because we feel we are letting others down or that we are becoming a burden.

  32. @Hippopotamusdrome

    Earliest example of Mr. Unz’s new triangular trade?

  33. That story is fake AF. She set herself on fire freebasing crack or something and had to make up a story. So it was a random gang of neo-nazis did it. Sure.

  34. Over in the UK, activists have a hit list of statues they plan to remove, according to the Daily Mail.

    Not sure how true the news report is, but a list of targets includes worthies such as Oliver Cromwell, Sir Francis Drake, Captain Cook, Robert Peel, William Ewart Gladstone, and others.

    The list also includes ur-iStever Ronald Fisher.

    https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8424625/Topple-Racists-says-colonial-warmonger-Sir-Arthur-Bomber-Harris-removed.html

  35. Ed says:

    The Dutch make some municipal cuts on the Caribbean island of Curaçao, riots ensue:

    https://www.curacaochronicle.com/post/main/curacao-closes-willemstad-center-after-looting-and-fires/

  36. @advancedatheist

    Cognitive Behavioral Programming, as it were.

    For both blacks (or is it “Blacks”?) and “good whites”.

  37. Ed says:
    @Kronos

    White Catholics gave Trump 60% of the vote in 2016 but I fear he won’t be getting it this time around. Anyway white WASPs as a coherent political, ethnic unit doesn’t seem to exist any more, not in the Northeast at least. So interesting theory and examination of the past, not sure this argument gets to our current moment.

    • Replies: @Kronos
  38. Andrew M says:
    @Anonymous

    Yes, the sheer physical intimidation of blacks is the elephant in the room. Throughout childhood they are consistently the tallest and strongest kids in school; but when they enter the real world, they discover that they can’t beat up other people for lunch money any more.

    • Agree: Ian Smith
  39. * Bitterness about the past (Slavery, Jim Crow, Red-lining, Emmett Till)

    Given how blacks tend to handle money poorly, redlining did them a favor by keeping them from taking on debts they couldn’t repay.

    • Agree: Joseph Doaks
  40. @Kinda Salty

    Yes. The most left-wing friend I ever had ticked a lot of the boxes for histrionic personality disorder. Virtue signalling is about craving validation and attention.

  41. @Anonymous

    I agree with you that Jews manifest all of the behaviours mentioned, and would add that although they are highly successful, they are also highly neurotic on average.

    Sailer is being a bit of a proverbial “boomer” above in attributing black failure to outside influences (coddling, political agitation etc). He should know better.

    It’s mostly just IQ.

  42. @Lurker

    Throw a little ECT in there too, for good measure.

  43. @Grumpy

    Sounds like a certain sermon on a certain mount to me, well predating the 20th century.

  44. Kronos says:
    @Ed

    It’s meant to explain why “white“ elites (WASPs, Jews) keep inducing anti-white propaganda (Irish, Italians, etc) toward blacks. They grabbed the tail of the tiger decades ago but can’t let go without getting mauled. (They’ll get mauled regardless but they won’t be the first.)

  45. Arclight says:

    One thing that I have noticed through my job is that blacks who get accustomed to some kind of public assistance cannot imagine being able to live without it. I had an affordable housing project in which some of the units had rental subsidies and a number of tenants in those units had incomes high enough that the rental assistance needed to be allocated to others with less income. When I delivered that news (in person) I had multiple adults who either cried or were clearly struck with panic, despite having incomes ranging from $50k-$70k a year. One told me they had been on the program so long they couldn’t imagine not having it, and this particular resident struck me as the most resourceful of the ones I actually knew a bit. Another was distraught because it now meant his rent exceeded the payment on his Cadillac (I am not making this up).

    There were a handful of these residents who later on told me it turned out to be a good thing for them – generally because they figured out they were fine and were proud to no longer be on any kind of government assistance when so many people in their lives were. But a lot of them were still upset more than a year later or moved out.

  46. Looks like we found the systemic racism, boys!

    No wonder it’s flaring up in progtard areas.

  47. slumber_j says:
    @Dieter Kief

    Ironically enough, the Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) concept revolves around the ages-old worldly key values of pride, self-respect, responsibility and – freedom.

    Yes, and it has the advantage of being a talk therapy that actually works.

    My wife was a widow when I met her, and a CBT-oriented therapist was in the process of helping her escape the despondency and self-blame that had descended on her when her previous husband relapsed and fatally overdosed in their apartment while she was away for a couple of days. CBT was an enormous help to her.

    • Agree: Dieter Kief
  48. @Jon

    Jon, The point Annonymous was making is that it does not matter if Trump (or any nominal conservative) names any SCOTUS justice. That justice will find a way unfailingly to support every important liberal desired result and opinion. Roberts does that, so does Gorsuch, so too will Kavanaugh when called upon to do so. Scalia would not, so they whacked him and got away with it. Thomas won’t and they don’t dare whack him. Alito seems solid but we shall see.

    So voting for Trump (a real clown) to ensure that decent judges get appointed is a waste of time. Might as well stay home. No one appointed by the Leftists can be any worse, and they won’t be disappointing. We know clearly how they will rule on every important issue.

  49. @Altai

    Not surprising. I imagine it repels normies, too. It ensures that anyone in a relationship with these women (romantic or not) will indulge their mental illness. There’s a reason a lot of psychologists avoid these patients like the plague.

    God help you if a cluster b woman is in your family. I speak from experience. A lot of the SJW “struggle sessions” I see on Youtube remind me of the experience. The endless and circular arguments that don’t go anywhere. Any sensible defense interpreted as evidence of your damnation. The sheer joy they get in provoking you and bringing you down to their level while simultaneously claiming the mantle of victimhood. The pathological envy and the rage it triggers.

    I wish I can tell all white people not to get provoked by these freaks because the spiraling descent into crazy is not worth it.

  50. Altai [AKA "Altai_2"] says:
    @Kinda Salty

    A macro way to view the political debate on the internet since 2014 is that it started out as BPDers and Aspergers and other high functioning austists shouting at each. (Or rather, past each other)

  51. Anonymous[151] • Disclaimer says:
    @Kronos

    Does not explain why Catholic leaders like the Kennedys also supported these policies.

    • Replies: @Kronos
  52. @Kinda Salty

    God help you if a cluster b woman is in your family.

    I was engaged to one thirteen years ago.

    I watched her try to #MeToo an upstanding young man.

    After that and a pile of other red flags she tried to frame me for theft when I broke it off.

    Just don’t do it.

  53. I worked for a year in a regional mental health center basically babysitting chronic schizophrenics whence I was exposed to the teachings of Albert Ellis. Ellis developed “rational emotive therapy”. The basic idea is that you can teach yourself how to feel by choosing the focus of your thinking. The phrase that stuck with me is”Blame is the essence of mental disturbance”. Peace .

    • Thanks: Coemgen
    • Replies: @Dieter Kief
  54. @Anonymous

    “On some level, whites are afraid to admit they are afraid of blacks. ”

    Whites are justifiably afraid of blacks because whites know the entire social structure is tilted in favor of blacks — verbal confrontations or physical self defense against black social pathologies will be punished severely. Better to avoid them altogether, but it’s getting harder and harder to find black-free spaces.

    • Agree: Anonymousse
  55. @Brian Reilly

    No one appointed by the Leftists can be any worse

    That’s what’s called a failure of the pessimistic imagination.

  56. Coemgen says:
    @Anonymous

    Okay…agree on the point that society gives blacks excessive license for self-indulgent and unproductive thinking. But is it just me or are precisely these same cognitive distortions omnipresent throughout the Very Online Right?

    Examples.

    Please.

  57. @Anonymous

    I wonder if it’s always the same person posting these supposedly “racist” but definitely homoerotic fantasies about how awful and irresistible and and strong and sexy they find black men. Priss, whiskey, are there others or are these all alter egos of the same disturbed individual?

    It’s gross and you can’t help but thinking they are literally masturbating while posting. I’d really rather not be a party to that, thanks anyway.

  58. @RichardTaylor

    Blacks have never attained to white levels of civilization but it’s unfair and reductive to say they’re always in the same state. Even in this country they’ve been much better off than today where bastardy is universal, racial resentment is seen as virtuous, and murderous violence is culturally approved.

    Whites have seen better days and so have blacks. An insane degenerate mass culture makes everyone worse than what they could be.

    • Agree: Joseph Doaks, Dissident
  59. @Brian Reilly

    Yeah might as well stay home as spend fifteen minutes voting for someone less insane in any attempt to so much as slow the catastrophic collapse your children and grandchildren will have to live with.

    I mean, there are series to binge watch and you won’t be watching them in the gulag that’s for sure.

    Anyway everything else failing, voting Trump back in will seriously enrage the left and they’re such NICE people… why would anyone want to ever deny them any emotional satisfaction.

    So I’m with you, preemptive surrender is the sure bet!

  60. @Space cowboy

    The phrase that stuck with me is”Blame is the essence of mental disturbance”.

    It has become a habit really: If you’re in trouble, just find someone who’s to blame and you’ll be fine.

    Philosopher Hans Georg Gadamer solved this case by stating: Synthesis is under-appreciated in our times. This means: Having a look at how men as societal persons exist would be a good idea – to cultivate the sensus communis – one of the foundational idea of the renaissance, btw.

    The opposite is being emphasized in our popular culture and in the law: Do your thing, try to win, no matter what. You’re the one who deserves to win – and to be loved by all the others. We agree that you yourself would start to be civilized and lovely in the very moment you don’t have to suffer anymore from being oppressed – by – – the system…

  61. Kronos says:
    @Anonymous

    I figured it was due to ethnic infighting between the Catholics. In the book, the Poles and Irish for example despised each other. It talked about the Poles establishing a Polish National Church because ethnic strife was so bad with Irish bishops.

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polish_National_Catholic_Church

    Remember, the ethnic cleansing was viewed as an “accidental” byproduct of fighting urban blight. (I’m still not done with the book, but many important people didn’t view these urban renewal programs as insidious.) By the time these Catholic ethnics realized what was going on (if at all) it was far too late. There’s a reason JFK was the first and likely last (Irish) Catholic President mainly because those urban ethnic Catholic blocs were destroyed.

  62. Anonymous[200] • Disclaimer says:

    This is apparently the article which caused Amazon to drop Jones

    https://culturewars.com/news/nazi-hunters-part-i

    (Hunters is an Amazon Prime show)

  63. @PaceLaw

    not a word that is normally associated with that community. am curious as to who might be *projecting* that condition onto that specific group of people. you get one guess

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