RSSTalk to the college kids -- lots are.
No young men aren’t getting “free sex” what gave you that idea?
Certainly does not seem to be happening among black folks! And it really was not happening even among middle-class white folks back when I was young in the 1960s-'70s -- I know from actual family experience: the former husband may have been expected to contribute some child support, but the former stay-at-home mom was also expected to go out and get a job (and for former housewives, the job was not usually very well-paid).
Also if “Mr. Right” abandons her and the kids (which the odds are against), most states will absolutely go to the mattresses to make sure he provides financial support...
Having lived through it, I can assure you that the counter-culture was overwhelmingly heterosexual. Somewhere there might have been some gay hippies, but I never knew any. If anything, the gay community back then tended to be a bit bourgeois -- middle-class jobs, etc. Yeah, the counter-culture types certainly did want, as you say, "consequence free sex," but, by and large, it was heterosexual sex. And transgenderism was some weird thing that maybe some Dutch or Danish people did.
Also, the 60s sexual revolution absolutely went hand-in-glove with the gay rights movement, feminism, sexual fads, etc. They weren’t “exuberantly embracing biology”, as if they were pioneers who discovered people like sex! They were the first though to embrace a fantasy of consequence free sex, which is clearly insane.
Hibernian handled the gay thing but I would add that of course the majority of what was happening was heterosexual because the majority then as now was heterosexual. But everything from the Mattachine society to pop tv like All in The Family was trying to get gay rights, transvestitism, etc. off the ground.
No, college men aren’t really getting free sex. They may “say” they are, but based on stats and reports, young people are actually having less sex in general. What’s happening is the young men at the top of the heap are getting more and more, but the average man is getting less and less. It’s fascinating really. There’s an image of college as some sort of free for all, but it’s a bit of an apex fallacy. Now if you straight up ask young men if they are sexual failures of course they’ll say no, but in the anonymity of studies or the Internet, more and more men are being left behind.
The black community is different, the issue there isn’t so much men abandoning their children so much as women kicking them out and the state can’t squeeze blood from a stone if a man doesn’t have a job.
Well, I think you may over-estimate the amount of sex young single guys were getting in the '50s and early '60s, before the sexual revolution. One reason guys got married pretty young back then was that that was pretty much the best way to have regular sex.
No, college men aren’t really getting free sex. They may “say” they are, but based on stats and reports, young people are actually having less sex in general. What’s happening is the young men at the top of the heap are getting more and more, but the average man is getting less and less.
Just a niggle at what you’re saying…
No young men aren’t getting “free sex” what gave you that idea? Also if “Mr. Right” abandons her and the kids (which the odds are against), most states will absolutely go to the mattresses to make sure he provides financial support, some states will even throw him in jail on the weekends if he fails to make enough money. Not saying there aren’t serious risks to mitigate, of course.
Also, the 60s sexual revolution absolutely went hand-in-glove with the gay rights movement, feminism, sexual fads, etc. They weren’t “exuberantly embracing biology”, as if they were pioneers who discovered people like sex! They were the first though to embrace a fantasy of consequence free sex, which is clearly insane. They also pioneered the idea of “youth rebellion” as a normal, natural phenomenon, as if it’s natural for young people to automatically hate their parents, hate their history, refuse to listen to anyone over 30 as the saying went, and abandon religion.
You’re right about a lot of what you say, and as much as I hate that it’s so necessary, women do need to be far more prepared for an economically harsh world. I also hate that those “rewarding careers” are almost totally certain to be way more meaningless in the long term than raising one child to be happy, wise, good, and strong. Shoot they’re usually more meaningless and less fulfilling in the short term. Who told us that being an HR Specialist III at GloboCorp was a more meaningful life, than producing new human life?
Talk to the college kids -- lots are.
No young men aren’t getting “free sex” what gave you that idea?
Certainly does not seem to be happening among black folks! And it really was not happening even among middle-class white folks back when I was young in the 1960s-'70s -- I know from actual family experience: the former husband may have been expected to contribute some child support, but the former stay-at-home mom was also expected to go out and get a job (and for former housewives, the job was not usually very well-paid).
Also if “Mr. Right” abandons her and the kids (which the odds are against), most states will absolutely go to the mattresses to make sure he provides financial support...
Having lived through it, I can assure you that the counter-culture was overwhelmingly heterosexual. Somewhere there might have been some gay hippies, but I never knew any. If anything, the gay community back then tended to be a bit bourgeois -- middle-class jobs, etc. Yeah, the counter-culture types certainly did want, as you say, "consequence free sex," but, by and large, it was heterosexual sex. And transgenderism was some weird thing that maybe some Dutch or Danish people did.
Also, the 60s sexual revolution absolutely went hand-in-glove with the gay rights movement, feminism, sexual fads, etc. They weren’t “exuberantly embracing biology”, as if they were pioneers who discovered people like sex! They were the first though to embrace a fantasy of consequence free sex, which is clearly insane.